Some huge, terrible things have happened to me this week (the main reason for the blogging silence). Some people drink too much when they go through a crisis. Some run out and buy cars and designer shoes that they can't afford. Some make very bad relational decisions. I go to Dan West Garden Center and impulsively pick up an eight-dollar gardenia bush without knowing where I'm going to plant it. YEAH THAT'S RIGHT. THIS IS WHO I AM. THIS IS HOW I ROLL.